{"id":21475,"date":"2022-02-24T10:55:26","date_gmt":"2022-02-24T16:55:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.moundsparkacademy.org\/news\/?p=21475"},"modified":"2022-02-24T11:28:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T17:28:34","slug":"upper-school-division-news-february-24-2022","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.moundsparkacademy.org\/news\/2022\/02\/24\/upper-school-division-news-february-24-2022\/","title":{"rendered":"Upper School Division News February 24, 2022"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Upperfrom Mark Segal, Upper School Director<\/em><\/p>\n

I pledged years ago that I would never be one of \u201cthose parents.\u201d I had heard, read about, and as an educator witnessed the parents who re-experienced their own childhood successes through their children. This was especially true in athletics where the notorious stories of Tiger Woods\u2019 father, Earl, and other like him filled my memories. Even though my son received his first set of (plastic) golf clubs for his first birthday, I did all that I could to allow him to carve his own path and find his own interests as he grew older.<\/p>\n

A recent article in the Atlantic, \u201cLet Your Kids Be Bad at Things,\u201d shares the story of a parent who found their \u201ccompulsive overachieving core as a parent\u201d come out as they worked with their child to perfect a choregraphed dance and singing number at an elementary talent show. The parent shared their own internal battle of not wanting to upset the other parents or the children, theirs included, by being overbearing and demanding about the performance. While at the same time wanting the performance to be crisp and well done. They explained, \u201cyou go from wanting one tiny little thing to wanting everything\u2013for your child, for you, and for everyone who witnesses the group\u2019s performance.\u201d Through the trials and tribulations, the parent recognized that the children\u2019s performance was not reflective of who they were as a parent, but rather reflective of who their child was as a child.<\/p>\n

This was confirmed in a recent article in the Chronicle of Higher Education where the authors, Else-Quest, Sathy, and Hogan, share that \u201ccompassion and kindness are foundational to effective teaching (and parenting).\u201d As much as we want our children to be perfect at school, sports, dancing, singing, and all of the other opportunities we provide them, it is just not reality. Therefore, they continue, instead of expecting themselves to do everything perfectly, the students should aim to do them pretty well and receive the grace and support of those who love and care about them the most.<\/p>\n

I have found over the past 28 years in the education field, and the past 13 years as a parent that it is hard to back off and lessen our hopes and dreams for our children. We need to, however, focus on setting appropriate expectations for ourselves and our children to focus on what really matters and preserve the relationships that mean so much to us.<\/p>\n

I know, as a parent and educator, that this is not easy. As shared earlier, my son received his first set of golf clubs as a one year old, and I have visions of him one day playing on the PGA Tour. Until then, I know that he will double-bogey some holes and miss plenty of three-foot putts. I am also resolved that sometimes good enough is just that.<\/p>\n

I look forward to seeing you on campus soon.<\/p>\n

Important Information<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. We\u2019re excited for the 2022 MPA Spring Auction: Let\u2019s Dream, which will be held on Friday, April 22 at A\u2019bulae in Lowertown. This is an opportunity for our entire community to gather safely together and celebrate the year. The event will feature an amazing meal, fun games and prizes, and the chance to bid on and win wonderful auction items, all in support of the MPA community. The event raises more than $200,000 in support MPA students, staff, and teachers.\u00a0Sponsorship packages and tickets are available now!\u00a0<\/span>We\u2019re also in need of a variety of auction items including gift cards, baskets, experiences, and more! No donation is too small. Click here<\/a> to view the 2022 Wish List.\u00a0<\/span>The auction planning committee also invites you to attend our event preview at drop-off or pick-up time on Thursday, March 24! Join us from 7:15-9 AM or 2-3:30 PM in the Family Commons to learn more about this year\u2019s auction, meet fellow parents, and enjoy snacks and drinks. For new families especially, this is a wonderful opportunity to connect with other parents and learn about what to expect when you attend. <\/span>Thank you to our volunteer committee: Karen Chan, Rebekah Cook, Sarah Cotter, Lucia Gray, Amy Kotch, Tara Lafferty, Jennifer Macdonald, Amy Minear, Renee Roach, Mindy Ruane, Kelley Still, Leslie Todero, and Lisa Vale.\u00a0<\/span>Please contact Jennifer Rogers-Petitt, director of development and community engagement, via email at <\/span>jrogers@moundsparkacademy.org<\/a> or at 651-748-5532 with any questions.<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. If your student will be absent, late, or needs to be excused early from school, please reach out to Rachel Westmoreland by email at rwestmoreland@moundsparkacademy.org<\/a> or phone on 651-748-5544<\/li>\n
  3. As we continue to navigate the ongoing challenges of the pandemic, we ask for your diligence in working with our Covid-19 symptom response and contact tracing team. At the first sign of symptoms, parents should complete the daily AUXS app symptom screening and\/or email covid@moundsparkacademy.org<\/a>. This should happen BEFORE seeking a Covid-19 test. When a negative Covid-19 test is required for student clearance, results must be provided prior to the student\u2019s return. All symptomatic community members, regardless of vaccination status must remain at home pending those results. Thank you for your partnership. For any questions, please contact Jennifer Rogers-Petitt at jrogers@moundsparkacademy.org<\/a>.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Looking Ahead<\/strong><\/p>\n

    Tuesday-Friday, 2\/22-25: SnoDaze Week
    \nFriday, 2\/25: SnoDaze Dance, 8-11 PM, Upper School Commons
    \nTuesday, 3\/1: Upper School Choral Concert, 7:30-9 PM, Nicholson Center
    \nMonday, 3\/7: Spring Break Begins
    \nMonday, 3\/21: Classes Resume
    \nTuesday, 3\/29: Quarter 3 World Language Final Exams, in scheduled class
    \nWednesday, 3\/30: Quarter 3 World Language Final Exams, in scheduled class
    \nThursday, 3\/31: Quarter 3 Science Final Exams, 8:45-10:15 AM
    \nFriday, 4\/1: End of Quarter 3
    \nFriday, 4\/1: Quarter 3 Math Final Exams, 8:45-10:15 AM
    \nFriday, 4\/1: Quarter 3 Social Studies Final Exams, 12-1:30 PM
    \nMonday, 4\/4: No Classes, Professional Development
    \nTuesday, 4\/5: Quarter 4 Begins
    \nFriday, 4\/22: MPA Spring Auction: Let\u2019s Dream, 6:30-10:30 PM, A\u2019bulae<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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