November 14, 2024
from Paul Errickson, Middle School director
Mark Your Calendars
- Saturday, November 16: MS Tech Day, 9 AM-1 PM, Black Box
- Sunday, November 17-Saturday, November 23: Fall Campaign
- Thursday, November 21: Give to the Max Day
- Thursday, November 21: Spirit Wear Day
- Thursday, November 21: Give to the Max Day Assembly, 2:20-3 PM, Lansing Sports Center
- Friday, November 22: MS Play “Little Women,” 7-8:30 PM, Black Box
- Saturday, November 23: MS Play “Little Women,” 2-3:30 PM, Black Box
- Sunday, November 24: MS Play “Little Women,” 2-3:30 PM, Black Box
- Wednesday, November 27: No Classes, Thanksgiving Break
- Thursday, November 28: No Classes, Thanksgiving Break, MPA Campus Closed, Panther Club Closed, PreK Closed
- Friday, November 29: No Classes, Thanksgiving Break, MPA Campus Closed, Panther Club Closed, PreK Closed
- Monday, December 2: Class of 2029 Feed Your Mind Dinner, 6-8 PM, Family Commons
- Wednesday, December 4: Founders’ Day Breakfast, 7-8 AM, Family Commons
- Wednesday, December 4: MS/US Parents: Students and Screens, 1:45-3 PM, Recital Hall
Recently, I attended a talk by Dr. Lisa Damour, a renowned adolescent psychologist and prolific author of books and a podcast that all parents should dig into if they hope to raise resilient, balanced, and joyful kids. Her biggest piece of advice to parents: be a steady presence for your child, especially when they are dealing with stress.
Remember that moment when your child was little and experienced unexpected pain? Think of a skinned knee or bop on the head. They would look at you to see how to react: How bad is it? If you ran over, swooping in to clear the scene, check all of their parts, apply first aid immediately, and discipline anyone within earshot, they would match that with tears and fears of what just happened. But, if you responded with a look of, “It’s okay, you’ve got this!” your child would be able to take a deep breath, assess the situation, and self-regulate their response to the injury. This—self-regulation—builds their resiliency and independence.